Kirklees Together

Brenda Whitworth, a dedicated foster carer from Dewsbury, was in royal company as she attended a garden party at Buckingham Palace.

Since Brenda first got in touch with Kirklees Council’s fostering team 39 years ago, she has looked after nearly 200 children – an incredible achievement which was rewarded with her special day out.

Recalling the moment she received her invitation, Brenda said:

“I was just shocked, I was lost for words and did not know what to say.

“The fact it was one of the young people I fostered that led to me being invited is what truly makes me feel I’ve made a difference.”

Now aged 73, Brenda remains dedicated to her role with the council and is still caring for a local child. She has encouraging words for anyone considering fostering:

“If you love kids and you’ve got a spare room, go for it. It’s well worth it and very rewarding.”

Brenda’s journey to the palace started when she won the BBC North Make a Difference Award in the “Carer “category. She was then put forward for the royal garden party, where she had the privilege of meeting Sophie, Duchess of Edinburgh, and was just metres away from King Charles himself.

Brenda’s companion for the day was Kayleigh Ioannou, the former foster child who had nominated her for the award.

Brenda said:

“It was a lovely sunny day and walking up to the palace gates and seeing them open for you was a strange feeling. You had tourists looking at you, wondering who you are.

“The palace gardens are beautiful and we were there for three hours. Being invited to the party was amazing, but it’s nothing compared to the experiences I have had during all my years supporting young people.”

Royal approval was the latest honour for Brenda, who was recently given a long-service award by Kirklees Council as part of celebrations for Foster Care Fortnight.

Cllr Viv Kendrick, Cabinet member for Children’s Services, said:

“We are so proud of Brenda and the immense contribution she has made. Brenda has supported many vulnerable children over the last 39 years and being invited to Buckingham Palace was a beautiful reward for her wonderful work and selfless effort.

“Fostering changes lives and fostering with Kirklees Council makes a profound difference. It means children and young people are less likely to face the stress and disruption of having to move to a different area, helping us to provide the best possible start in life.”

Could you follow Brenda’s inspirational example and care for our vulnerable children?

People can become foster carers regardless of their marital status, sexuality, religious or cultural background. You can be a homeowner or renting, employed or unemployed, retired or on benefits and be with or without children. For more information visit the Foster for Kirklees web page.

You can also contact the team by emailing fostering@kirklees.gov.uk or by calling 0800 389 0086